Saturday, February 21, 2009

game over...i lost!

dat's all folks. i'm no longer in the running to becoming Mrs Jones. MJ and i split up...i guess i was never right for him (in Mrs Jones' opinion). i lost.
would blog about it all wen i feel strong enough.
chari, this is when i need u to cry wolf cos it really is wolf.

24 comments:

Teeee said...

I'm so sorry. I hope you heal quickly and come out a stronger person. I don't think you've lost. When God closes one door, he opens another

miss jones said...

thanks Teeee. its so darn hard to move on from this point. question is: wot am i meant 2 do with all this love? i still love my man a whole lot.

Anonymous said...

o wow...this crazy mehn...it is well dear...I jus cried wolf

what was his reason for leaving tho? was it still that his momc palava?

Abujamaiden said...

I hope you heal with time....

I won't give false hope but if you still love him, and he loves you, maybe....

Time will tell.

Be good! God Bless!

Rebirth said...

sorry hun, plenty cyber hugs...... i really do hope u feel better. What were his reasons? maybe its something you can work on, did you try talking to his mum directly. sometimes polite confrontation usually hepls.....

Anonymous said...

sorry dear. hugs and kisses. But like I always say, go and stuff your face with a huge quantity of food. And find your girlfriends that will tell you how really stupid he was and your friends that will make you laugh. and did I mention, STUFF your face with some food. yes, it always works for me. Kisses and hugs.

Zayzee said...

be strong. no door closes or open unless God says so. put ur eys on Him. If He closed this door, then He needed for it to close for another to open, if He didnt, then worry not, nobody closes a door He did not authorise.

Nefertiti said...

:( I'm so sorry. I don't know ur story, but I hope u come out on the other end a stronger woman.

What do you mean by u weren't 'Right' for him tho? Were those his words? If so, Y?

Anonymous said...

wow........hopefully u take the lessons learned and move on..... Just did a quick scan of the blog and looks like you did quite a bit trying to connect with Mrs Jones.. At least you can hold your head up high and know that you gave it a very good shot..

Buttercup said...

I agree with danny..u made a whole lot of effort. Its his loss..TOTALLY.

Im so so sorry love..

Jayla. said...

So sorry babe, take the memories and lessons learned and move on since it seems like u gave it your best.

Hug hug babe, you'll get better

miz-cynic said...

wen it comes to mother inlaws who dont like u at first, its ur bobos duty to foster the relationship if he is sure ur his choice...wen they see tht their son has chosen/picked u....they'll learn to love u.but sorry it ended tht way. mayb u were not meant to be together...ur flesh of ur flesh will come along.

lil' spider said...

I am so sorry! But hey, chin up! something better is already on its way. god be with you, my dear.

Writefreak said...

I'm really sorry to hear this! Haven't been here before and don't know the history but i know it must really hurt...big hugs...and i pray you are able to deal with it and the right man comes along for you soon

~Sirius~ said...

oh no! :-(
How sad........hope the heart heals sooner than later.

PS: everything happens for a reason dear (so you have a reason to smile......some how you have just been saved from *something you probably wouldn't have phantomed)

Everything will be fine.

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SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

I don't know your story but I am so sorry you are in pain right now. Try to keep your head up.

isha said...

I just came over from Chari's blog. I'm so sorry to hear this. I pray that God gives you grace to heal well from this kind of heartbreak. It gets better, but I know it will take time.

Take it easy.

Jay said...

Am so sorry...can't even say i know how you feel because i don't but chin up...time is a great healer. You will be fine xx

Vera Ezimora said...

I'm so sorry to hear about this, love. I'm curious too: why did he end it?

Dee said...

I feel your pain! But know this, what is yours will always be yours! Nothing can change that.

Try to put it all in the past and stay strong.

Brown Sugar said...

your situtation reminds me of one line from Jazmine Sullivan's song lions&tigers&bears " why do we love love...when love seems to hate us"
I pray that you heal with time. remember that no sadness lasts forever...

miss jones said...

thanks everyone...tryna get my life back together...a holiday would be perfect (sh*t, we planned to go to Georgia together in april)...dunno...will let y'all know when i'm fine. thanks again muchos.

lil' spider said...

hey. hope u r better now. jus checking to be sure time's keeping her word. u'll heal, and in the end, it will all be beautiful. be good to urself,aite?